Tuesday, November 24, 2009

Happy Thanksgiving!

In anticipation of an absolutely wonderful upcoming weekend of time with family and friends, I thought I would prompt you to comment on what you're most thankful for this Thanksgiving.

Here's my list:
--My dear husband Ted
--That our kids, daughters-in-law, grandbabies and babe-in-womb are so healthy and are all happy and prospering
--That my life is so full of people to love and who love me back
--That we will gather on Saturday for a wonderful party to honor Joel and Jo's engagement with so many of our friends and family
--That I have some days, though still too rare, where I feel like my old self again, but that I'm improving month by month
--Most importantly, that God loves me!

Can't wait to read your comments! Have a very blessed Thanksgiving!

Monday, November 9, 2009

I Declare Blog War!

Okay, okay...most of you already knew and I'm sure were aghast as you read AskIndyTed's blog and I quote...

"Who is in control of the thermostat in your abode? If you are a man, you are in control. If not, buy a skirt. No self-respecting man ever relinquishes control of the one thing that women are incapable of understanding."

So did he actually think I would let that go? Of course not. Is he writing such nonsense just to irk me? to get my ire up? If so, it's working as I now declare our first Meek family...

All out BLOG WAR!

So here's my retort...

"Who is in control of everything else except the thermostat and the TV/DVR remotes in your abode? If you are a woman, you are in control. If not, get your girlfriends together for an emergency session to talk some sense into you! No self-respecting woman ever relinquishes control over running the household, the kids, the bills, the social calendar and all other "duties assumed" that men are incapable of understanding or should I say incapable of wanting to understand!"

So there!

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Virtual Thanks!


I continue to just love my IU teaching job. It fits me perfectly...love the connection to students, the need to continually learn and the flexibility to do my work from wherever and whenever (well almost) I want!

I have been a "virtual" worker for so long that I was really jerked back to reality during a recent faculty meeting at the school. Now mind you, this was a room of master's and doctorally prepared acadamicians who are all just amazing people. But as we discussed a renovation to the 'faculty floor' of the building, there very clearly emerged a dichotomous curve. There were those who clearly not only love their offices, but have strong preferences regarding all aspects of the floor design, from how big, where at, how their desk faces, etc, etc. I was struck by their passion as I don't even need nor necessarily want IU to spend monies on an office for moi'.

I was so amazed, yet after reflecting on the discussion, realized that their preferences are no less valid than mine. My preferences are just as strong at the other end of the curve...I need to work where and however I want to...be it the library, grade papers at 1am, on a flight or at a Starbucks (where I do some of my best work juiced by a Venti black unsweetened iced tea if I do say so myself!). I'm currently teaching a class that is TOTALLY online...we never meet, students read about, turn in and I grade all of their assignments online and even my office hours are online using Breeze Adobe technology.

All of this just begs the question around how all of this "virtual-ness" drives some of us? while for others, it's disturbing? And most importantly, how dramatically our work, social and family lives are being affected. I don't know what I would do if I couldn't log onto Brooke's blog for a dose of my grandchildren's latest antics or Skype them on the weekends between our visits. We're in touch it seems multiple times per week with our three sons via GChat, texting, email and cell phone calls. What would we have done if we didn't have these mechanisms to stay connected across the miles between NYC, San Fran and St. Louis? I think it's a really fun subject to think about!

Anyhoo, when turkey time rolls around, I'm sending virtual thanks for my virtual world!

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Happy Halloween!


This picture says it all....Halloween is just made for fun with kids! Parker and Finley loved visiting the pumpkin patch and we had a blast helping them with their first participatory jack-o-lantern carving. Just love the looks on kids faces when they first discover the gook inside the pumpkin.

Hope your Halloween is filled with some child-like fun!

Thursday, October 29, 2009

I Think I've Just Received a Huge Gift!


Oh my gosh...I know it's premature, but I just had to write you all about this. I'm not a whiner by nature. I tend to suck it up and push down how my body feels and just go about my day. My mind always seems to be able to overcome the minor normal aches and pains of life and I find that as my day moves on...I don't even notice or remember how hard it was to get out of bed.

So what has changed for me since entering this whole breast cancer and treatment thing, is that those tactics haven't worked very well lately. I hurt all over ALL day from my feet to my shoulders and everywhere in between and on top of that, I manage to have 3-4 hot flashes per hour, so you run the quality of life calculations. This equates to lowered energy for all I love to do and that is so frustrating to me.

But yesterday, I think we found a solution. I went in for all my normal check-ups with my oncology doc's and they felt it was time to do something more to help me out. So they prescribed a nightly dose of Neurontin..that can be up'd to a 2nd and 3rd dose if needed to control my hot flashes. Needless to say, Ted RAN to the drug store to get this filled last night in the hopes that he might not have to spend the night freezing under the covers as I run a constant fan over my body and make him turn the heat down to freezing temps.

Guess what happened next? I woke up at 7AM feeling bright and bushy-tailed! I felt more rested than I have in a year! Next, I put my poor plantar-fascitiis feet to the floor, to begin my pain-filled hobble to the bathroom. And lo and behold, NO PAIN...absolutely none! It's a God-given miracle! This drug is also prescribed for nerve pain due to shingles, fibromyalgia, etc., but little did I know I would get this affect on my feet! We're both still a bit cautious about this result as I also had my Zometa treatment yesterday and they give me 2 anti-inflammatory drugs to reduce the flu-like side effects but I don't remember getting any relief for my feet in the prior treatments, so I'm hopeful the Neurontin is helping.

It's now 1:30p and I haven't yet had a hot flash today. My feet still don't hurt. I actually have energy! I'm pumped! This would enable me to walk/get exercise again which will help me get this stinkin' weight off. I know we beat up the drug companies for profit-mongering, but I tell ya...thank God for their work...it just changed my life!

Monday, October 19, 2009

Speaking of Goals!

So if you look to the left, you'll see 7 of the most goal-driven people I know...this is from Joel & Jo's engagement party in San Fran about 10 days ago (left to right Jo's parents David & Chia-Chia, Ted & me, Jo & Joel, Jeff & Shiao who is Jo's sister/bro-in-law). I'm hoping to be inspired by these folks!

If you look to the right under the item called Recovery Goals, you will see that I made huge progress in the first few months post-treatment, but now it's S-L-O-W going! In terms of the last few goals which basically cover losing weight, starting to exercise more regularly, my right arm healing and Teddy feeling like "I'm back", well...I'm just not "back" enough to get those done!

It seems that what I can still manage is to get my teaching work done, to keep up with all the wonderful fun events happening in our lives and to rest enough in between to get to the next week! I know that exercising regularly would help me a ton, but I just don't have the energy to even think about it, other than my weekly weight training, which I've been doing faithfully.

So whether I just need more patience or someone to kick my big behind into gear is somewhat of a toss-up at the moment!

Friday, October 9, 2009

Life's Celebrations!

It's true what they say...after intense storms come beautiful streams of sunshine. And so it is for the Meek family right now. After an intense winter, we seem to be overflowing with blessings...
--The twins growing and so healthy
--Brooke's pregnancy going well and Harrison looking so healthy in utero
--Joel and Jo getting engaged
--Brian loving his residency
--Kyle doing cool shows and increasing the length of his productions
--Teddy retiring
--Me loving my job
--Many, many, many happy celebrations shared with neighbors, friends and family over the summer
--No shortage of more fun and celebrations this fall

So I just feel so blessed. I'm trying to enjoy and savor every minute of it. I hate those 'life-happens', wise old woman thoughts of knowing that there will be another time of challenge ahead, at some point...but for now, joy!